Calm Connection Parenting | Meltdowns, Neurodivergence, Emotional Regulation, DMDD, Autism, SPD, Defiance, Angry Behaviors
Ranked in the top 2.5% of podcasts globally! Tired of walking on eggshells… dreading the next meltdown? Exhausted by big emotions. defiance, and disobediance? Wondering why “traditional" parenting advice backfires with your strong-willed child?
I’m glad you’re here. This podcast helps you understand what’s behind your child's behavior, so you can respond with calm, stop second-guessing yourself, and build real connection with your neurodivergent or uniquely wired child.
Hi, I’m Jami… a mom of seven, professional counselor turned parenting coach, speaker, and author. And yes, even with training, I found myself stuck in the same cycle so many parents live in: meltdown… reaction… guilt… repeat. I was doing all the things that were “supposed” to work… but they didn’t.
Everything changed when I stopped treating behavior like the problem and started looking underneath it. When I learned to understand my child’s unique wiring (personality, sensory processing, executive functioning, and emotional needs), I finally had a roadmap. I didn’t need more tips… I needed clarity and a plan. And that clarity changed things.
If you’re ready to ditch the overwhelm and stop parenting in survival mode, you’re in the right place. We’ll talk meltdowns, emotional dysregulation, defiance, ADHD, DMDD, anxiety, and more… along with practical steps that help your family move from chaos to calm… one episode at a time.
So grab your coffee, find your quiet spot (if you have one), and let’s jump in.
Start here: Take the FREE Emotional Forecast Quiz at CalmConnectionParenting.org and find your next best step.
Calm Connection Parenting | Meltdowns, Neurodivergence, Emotional Regulation, DMDD, Autism, SPD, Defiance, Angry Behaviors
77. Why Some Kids Have Big Emotions and Challenging Behaviors: A Fresh Look at Emotional Dysregulation with Penny Williams
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Why do some children experience emotional dysregulation, explosive meltdowns, and challenging behaviors that seem bigger than the situation?
In this episode of the Calm Connection Parenting Podcast, I’m joined by parenting expert Penny Williams, host of the Beautifully Complex Podcast with more than 5 million downloads, to talk about why some kids have bigger emotions and behaviors than others.
Parents raising children with ADHD, DMDD, sensory processing challenges, or other neurodivergent differences often find that traditional discipline strategies don’t work the way they expect. What looks like defiance may actually be a child struggling with emotional regulation and nervous system overwhelm.
In this episode we discuss:
• Why some kids experience emotional dysregulation and meltdowns
• Ways we may need to adjust our expectations of our child
• Why traditional discipline strategies can escalate emotionally intense kids
• How understanding your child’s wiring can help you respond with calm and connection
Over the next few weeks, I’ll also be sharing insights from experts who help parents navigate meltdowns, emotional dysregulation, executive function challenges, and nervous system regulation.
And something exciting is coming soon for parents raising emotionally intense and uniquely wired children… so make sure you’re part of the Calm Connection Parenting Facebook group so you don’t miss what’s ahead.
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